How often do you sit back and think of your initial few dates? Those compliments, gifts, surprises, and most of all the efforts put-in to impress each other. Ah! Those good-old-days. Every relationship kick starts with interesting and fun meetings. As time passes by, dates with your partner are no more exciting. The reason is obvious, we don’t put that much effort.
Is this how it should be? Shouldn’t your 20th date be as fun as your 1st one? Certainly yes. Even you would want it, but how? Actually, the answer is quite simple. Start with first deciding to make your relationship and dates exciting AGAIN. Now here are the further steps:
What’s it that you both love to do?
Yes. What is it that you both find exciting to do? Movie, TV show, gaming or clubbing, recall what is it. Plan your date according to it. Get over those boring fine-dining.
Plan outdoor trips. Dive into a pool, visit the hottest clubs in the town, get drunk and unleash your wild side. If not it’s something you enjoy, plan what your partner will love. Bring them loads of happiness and let them enjoy their favourite time with you.
It’s time to bring back that excitement and fun.
Try to impress your partner, again
We know, it’s been so long you both have been together. There’s hardly any dress your partner hasn’t seen you in. But, that’s what needs to be worked upon. Let your partner fall in love with you again. Dress in their favourite colour. Impress them like it’s your first date.
You both have to grow old together. Why not do it beautifully? Bring back the same attraction and passion you both had for each other. Don’t let your relation and dates be the boring and dull ones. It’s important to have the physical attraction alive in your partner.
So, dress up for them like it’s the first time.
Speak your heart out
Take time to talk about your relationship. Recall your past good memories and relive those good days. All this would actually make your partner also realise the need to put effort to make the dates as interesting as before.
[Discuss the good things together. Don’t compare and blame your partner for not putting enough effort. It’s a mutual mistake for letting off the excitement from your dates].
P.S. Don’t forget to tell your partner how much you love them.
Surprises always work
Well, good dates don’t always have to be in restaurants. Even your home can be a perfect destination. Surprise them with good decor, a bottle of wine, their favourite music and food.
No matter how old you are, these little surprises are capable enough to bring back the young romance. Just a little effort and the simplest of things will turn out to be the most special ones.
Doesn’t all this look interesting already? It’s not at all a big task. Don’t wait for the right time to plan your fun dates. Today is always perfect to do something good. We know, you may go out for lunches and dinners. What needs to be done is to make that time as special as before.
Bring back the spark in your dates and let your partner meet you like it’s the first time.